That Other Lifestyle
About
"If you want to make legends, you have to be legendary"
I am Jayson, your guide in navigating the good, the bad, the ugly and weird sides of this wild Lifestyle. Leave Vanilla behind as I dive into how to be successful in the Lifestyle.
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A guy with a microphone and a dream
Meet Jayson: The Lifestyle Aficionado
Jayson is the host and creator of That Other Lifestyle, a podcast about swinging, ethical non-monogamy, and the strange, beautiful, occasionally awkward world that exists just outside the vanilla script.
He brings a mix of humor, honesty, lived experience, and “please act like a grown adult” energy to conversations about the Lifestyle. From flirting and communication to STI testing, consent, compersion, rejection, confidence, party etiquette, and the emotional landmines people don’t always want to talk about, Jayson has a way of making complicated topics feel human, approachable, and occasionally hilarious.
He is not here to sell a fantasy where everyone is perfect, confident, and constantly having cinematic sex under flattering lighting. That is not the Lifestyle. That is marketing bullshit.
The real Lifestyle is more interesting.
It is connection. It is curiosity. It is learning how to communicate better, flirt better, handle rejection better, show up with more confidence, and treat people like actual humans instead of accessories to your fantasy.
Through That Other Lifestyle, Jayson works to challenge old stereotypes about swingers and show that this world is bigger, richer, and more meaningful than most people realize.
He believes the Lifestyle can be sexy, fun, ridiculous, healing, messy, freeing, and deeply connective, sometimes all in the same weekend.
Whether you’re brand new, experienced, curious, nervous, or already fluent in pineapple, Jayson is here to help you navigate the Lifestyle with more confidence, more honesty, and fewer “what the hell did we just walk into?” moments.
That Other Lifestyle
I created That Other Lifestyle by combining years of experience in radio, corporate communication, training, and real-life Lifestyle experience into one mission: helping people understand, navigate, and enjoy the LS with more confidence, honesty, and humor.
The podcast gives the vanilla world a peek behind the curtain while helping new and experienced couples make sense of the wild, weird, beautiful culture we call the Lifestyle. We talk about the things people actually need: communication, flirting, consent, etiquette, rejection, confidence, testing, connection, party dynamics, and how to not accidentally become the cautionary tale at the next house party.
But That Other Lifestyle is not just advice. It is storytelling, myth-busting, history, culture, laughter, and a reminder that this world is bigger than the stereotypes people keep trying to shove us into.
Currently featured on SDC.com, I am available for podcast appearances, guest lectures, seminars, event discussions, and workshops on topics including Lifestyle etiquette, dating, flirting, single men, group dynamics, communication, confidence, and building better connections.
I also offer individual coaching for people and couples who want a more experienced ear. Whether you are brand new, stuck, nervous, curious, or just trying to get better at navigating this world, I can help you sort through the noise and find your next right step.
Want to collaborate, book me for something, ask a question, or tell me you love the show?
Drop me an email below.